A Letter with intention of comfort…not more not less…

Assalamualaikum,sorry first i am german (in Berlin) for my english,
i give permission for every body to get it right…

al hamdullillah i entered islam through sufi ways, and the miracle that i stayed in islam is that since 30 years i got for anything not just a theoretique answer from books, but through my teacher or may say Sheich, teachings to percive…through deepest reflection facing realties, fallings , faliures….

In fact i have got 5 good childrens i am proud of, on one side, with two ex wifes,
on the other side i am so tiered dont want any mor give pain to one of our sisters beeing married to me, and i mean i realy feel the pain….this is the point outside from my person, the fact that i dont desire the body of a woman…which a woman of cause feels after some time.
It does exactly not mean, that i could not be tender, or kind, yes even give pleasure to my wife`s body, out of my tast of love i had throuigh my daily practice, but i was not driven by desire for her body….i know for a lot of couples this desire is exactly the key moment in difficult relationship situations to find back together again,to seal the relationship, we are humans, disire like hunger before we eat….

So this is one side, the other is the trouble we all have, we desire what according what we understand, we should not desire.
After 30 years hard driving through life with this delemmer i reached a state,were i am happy, but i could not call any body to follow and to be successful, as one big part was our tarecat(sufi order) and my Sheich`s accompany, and so so so many dark, havy, painfull , doubt, lonly, lost, extradited vallys to go through…. unlimited vally oceans it seemed to be sometimes.

The key point is you can not take one side away without filling it with something else. The strictness towards our disires must be balanced with perciving his mercy. This is the progress cheme of sufism, reducing the domination of nafes not just by ristriction, but by balancing the balance with the perseption of a state of our lord.

As an example, got a situation with 3 smal childrens and every monther knows they can realy bring you to the limit of pations, in the moment loosing our pations we may surrender quickly to sabur, the unlimited pations of our lord, so simple just by repeating and remembering this reality of this name, ya sabur, ya sabur, ya sabur…

Yes it is a kind of brain washing, conditioning our brain and hard towards his reality.

Everybody may have experienced, you buy a car, lets say a polo volkswagen, ons a sudan driving through the streets it feels as if so many polos driving arround, our brain starts to persive what it did not persive before, but the same amount of polos was always there,

The sabur, pations of our lord is always there but we dont persive it.
To come back to our point it means, all what we get through folow our “wrong” desire, the sweetness, ….you know better, just to have the dream boy on your side for ever, can only be taken away if you manage to fill the gab with some thing much more stronger, i mean you persive the buitifull boy but do you persive as strong the beauty of our lord, if now in this moment this boy would stand naked in front of your praying carpet, would you smile with an open hard, but not be carried away because you persive your lord much more than this boy out of flesh and blood…

There are destinations, people are blind, they find a way to balance by there ears or other senses, somebody does not have a leg, he may balance, but it is true after 30 years i beleave the handycap, not to be able to desire a women is different, that means the most difficult thing, i kind of lonlyness in this world, not to have a human beeing deeply on our side, even not to dream and hope for what our lord granted most of humans to find comfort and deepest plesure…..whooooo,… “…fa be aiy allah he rabbi ku ma to cathiban…”, suratul rachman, do you want to deny the goodness(you may translate better) of the lord…are we perciving this goodness of our lord so strong, that that boy is not carrying us away, our hope and dream and desire for such a boy or person…

No, we may need to accept, we are weak, and be prepeared for most difficult states and moods by trying to achieve to overcome…sorry i cant say different…

But of cause if you reach this pleasure, its beyond of what anybody in this world may percive, even those who desire women….to percive in every single breath, in every single second, in every single hard beeping, even our life would last only one minute, more than what many may never percive in hole life, the miracle/goodness of our Lord, and is so so so sweet, and unlimited pleasurefull…but its a long long way to go, but sorry not to become racist, just a kindly joke to the end, you are americans, used to long ways in your big country…
These words can only discribe, and are limited, it could fill books, but may be you got some comfort and some direction, from “tassawoof” which is also part of islam.

If we just accept our weak situation, there might be at least things, verry practical, to limit the effect on our spirituel state, not as rule but it may help:
Be a little bit crazy at least, take always first shower for example before doing it again, i mean in that moment…do sadjda, bismillah allah hu akbar, just next to the bed on floor after, doesnt matter what your friend thinks ,confirm urself: Allah hu Akbar , he is bigger than our doings, bad or good…if intersted i may say more, just be honest, struggle to keep contact with your hope in him, be creative….he does not need ours but we need our hope in him, so what ever helps for that

Hamdullah, yes its my name i got new before 30 years, so happy in my hard, more like having won biggest lotterie jack pot.

I feel a strong sense of complacency from your message, as if you can do whatever you want and Allah will forgive you. What makes you sure of this? Perhaps you need to spend more time with the Qur’an to understand that there is a Hellfire that we could fall into if we don’t keep striving and repenting.

I notice another brother has quoted the verse “Verily Allah loves those who constantly repent and He loves those who purify themselves.” Yes, and there are categories of people He does not love, even if they profess Islam.

We need to be sincere to Him and keep away from what He prohibited. This is nothing to do with “intercessors”. May Allah help you.

Assalamu alaikum

“verily Allah loves those,who constantly repent and purify themselves”

to be able to conquer and to know how the devil works,is to gain real knowlege,”after” we have sinned and when we feel humility and repent,for our Allah is most merciful and wise,

we as muslims are here to teach others,when we have kowledge we then make sense,and help others not to make the same mistakes.

mankind is not perfect,we were made to make mistakes,but knowledge is power,the power to get rid of evil,and make goodness,
after we have learned,after we fall,after our pain and our loss,even that is the infinite mercy and love of Allah in our lives.but we need to first believe in our hearts that Allah our only lord is the most loving the most merciful,the most beneficial for our lives.He is always there to help us become stronger after we fall.MANKIND IS WLLING TO LEARN AND ACCEPTS,UNLIKE THE DEVIL,HE IS FOREVER LOST,BUT HE CAN NEVER INFLUENCE THE LOVING THINKING MAN,BECAUSE THE THINKING MAN WILL CARE NOT JUST FOR HIMSELF,BUT THE LIVES OF OTHERS AND THE WORLD AROUND HIM.AND KNOWS THAT HE WILL GET HIS REWARD FOR HIS SACRIFICES IN HEREAFTER,WHICH IS ETERNAL HAPPINESS,AND IN ALLAH HE PUTS HIS COMPLETE TRUST.A MUSLIMS WORKS TO BRING ALLAHS LAWS AND HIS WAYS INTO THIS WORLD.BECAUSE A TRUE MUSLIM WILL LOVE MANKIND FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH.

WASALLAM

Assalamu alaikum

Iblees (satan) was not made evil from Allah s.w.t,he was given free will,to think to do,and he failed the test.Iblees misunderstood Allahs infinite mercy and love,so challenged Allah by becoming evil.My understanding is,because mankind came on earth,after losing paredise through sin,could it be that we are tested through bad and good,but could we mankind also be a test for iblees? especialy the good muslims that he cannot take over,so Allah is forever showing him signs to surrender his evils.could it be at the time when heaven is made on earth and the devil loses his kingdom,because mankind will defeat him.We need to become the one body of muslim first,and let Allah guide us to make peace all over the world.

was that not mankinds purpose in life? TO DEFEAT THE DEVIL,AND MAKE HIM SURRENDER TO ALLAH,BY TEACHING HIM HIS WAYS ARE WRONG,AND WE DO NOT ACCEPT HIS EVIL TEMPTATIONS AND WE ARE NOT WILLING TO DESTROY ARE LIVES AND THIS WORLD!!!!!

EVERY LIVING THING HUMAN AND JINN,WERE MADE FOR ONE PURPOSE,THAT PURPOSE WAS TO OBEY ONLY ALLAH,AND BEFORE TIME ENDS FOR THIS WORLD,LETS ALL PRAY THAT IBLEES DOES LEARN AND ACCEPT THAT HE WAS NEVER ALLAH.I CAN ONLY COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT,THATS WHEN HEAVEN AND TRUE PEACE WILL COME ON EARTH.

MAY ALLAH FORGIVE ME IF I HAVE SAID ANYTHING WRONG,BUT MY THOUGHTS ARE FOR THE SAKE OF ALL EVIL TO END COMPLETLY,JUST AS ALLAH FIRST MADE EVERYTHING ALL GOOD.

“Misunderstandings are roots to all that is evil,
we do not misunderstand others,but misunderstand ourselves,
then destroy all that we had!”

WASALAAM

May i just point out that,although Allah has agreed to let Iblees live till end of time.It was only agreed because of the extensive worship that Iblees had done prior to him becoming the devil.As too much knowledge he also became very proud.This is why its a sin being proud and arrogance as it leads mankind awy from the truth of why we worship our lord in the first place.

Aswell as mankind being tested through the desires and temptations of the whisperings of Iblees,it may be a point to consider that,when Allah verily loves those who constantly repent and purify themselves
throug purifying from our sins we gain real knowledge,so are we mankind also here as test for the devil himself,so he may learn through mankinds “strength” in his iman and belief in the most kindest lord,that he may actually shamefully “learn” his “mistakes”?,

Rather then blaming our wonderful creator,for putting in us these emotions and desires,of wanting or loving what we cannot have,try and be posotive about the most loving most merciful most wise Allah,for Allah tests those to great levels who he loves the most.The lord works in mysterious ways.It could be you the very people that are going through this inner conflict,I CALL IT JIHAAD.ofcourse its must be the hardest struggle of your lives to still be true to Allah,but you might be defeating the devil himself.(MAY ALLAH FORGIVE ME IF I MAKE MISTAKES IN MY EXPLANATION). The lord is the greatest and has mercy for all that he creates.You must gain knowledge in special ares tht noone caould learn,in return you help in the salvation of mankind,that the Iblees is trying so hard to destroy.

Makes one think why its only Iblees that lives till end of time,when mankind comes and goes????

the world and mankind is going to unite and the lords kingdom will Insha Allah prevail on earth,like predicted,when no one shall be killed,and no wars will remain.

The gift of power we were given was “prayers”, lets all unite and pray for the end of all evil Insha Allah AMEEN.

Wasalaam.